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The challenge of life in their Afghan homeland for children born in exile


The challenge of life in their Afghan homeland for children born in exile

Half of Afghanistan's 5 million returnees were born in exile. The young returnees face many new challenges, but most show remarkable resilience.
20 November 2014 Also available in:
Young Afghan refugees on their way home to Afghanistan wave goodbye to Pakistan.

KABUL, Afghanistan, November 20 (UNHCR) - The United Nations Convention on the Rights of the Child was adopted 25 years ago today to protect children like Hasanat, Aisha and Safia.

The three, aged between seven and 13, have all returned to a homeland, Afghanistan, that they had heard much about but never visited. Half of Afghanistan's 5 million returnees since 2002 were born in exile, mostly in Iran or Pakistan, which together still shelter 2.5 million Afghans.

Hasanat, Aisha and Safia all face further challenges in a country that remains volatile and poverty stricken, and their stories reflect the vulnerability of childhood in the region as well as the resilience of young returnees. Hasanat tells a harrowing tale of return; the stories of Aisha and Safia highlight some of the human rights problems children face.

What returnee children make of their lives will, to a large extent, determine the long-term success of the world's largest voluntary repatriation and reintegration programme and shape Afghanistan's potential to build a peaceful and stable future. Some 12,000 Afghans have returned home from Pakistan so far this year.


"Afghanistan is now my home. I am happy and I will never leave," declared eight-year-old Hasanat, whose extraordinary return journey from Pakistan began when he decided to repatriate on his own after hearing that his father in Afghanistan had fallen ill and his refugee mother refused to return.

"I was selling fruit and vegetables in front of the market in Karachi [in southern Pakistan]," he explained. "When I saw some trucks loaded with Afghans, I asked them where they were going. They said they were returning home to Afghanistan. I begged them 'I want to see my sick father in Afghanistan,' so they let me get on the truck."

At the border with Afghanistan, he went to fetch water from a river and when he got back, the truck had gone. "The road was empty and I was alone," he recalled.

Panic-stricken and traumatized, Hasanat survived the next two days by begging for food and sleeping on the streets of a town in eastern Afghanistan. A kind shopkeeper noticed the sobbing child, fed him and drew out his story. The man took care of Hasanat and contacted UNHCR to trace the boy's family.

It was like searching for a needle in a hay stack, as Hasanat was too young to give much information. Through luck and hard work, UNHCR protection staff tracked down his family in northern Afghanistan.

"I dream that my whole family will be reunited some day in Afghanistan, when things improve and they can have a better life at home than they have now in Pakistan," sighed Hasanat's father, a farmer in a drought-stricken province. Both Hasanat's biological and foster families were assisted with cash support under UNHCR's project for extremely vulnerable individuals.


Thirteen-year-old Aisha dreams of becoming a doctor. The top student enjoyed the benefits of a UNHCR-sponsored education in a Pakistan refugee village before going to Wardak province in Afghanistan. Her family fled to Kabul when they received threatening letters from the Taliban warning them to stop sending their daughter to school.

"I want my daughter to hold on to her dreams and study hard and have a better life than I have," said her illiterate mother. "That's why we stayed in Pakistan, and we have now moved from our village to Kabul, where there are schools and girls can have opportunities." With UNHCR's advocacy, the Ministry of Education granted permission for Aisha and thousands of other returnee and internally displaced children to enrol in Kabul schools.

Throughout Afghanistan, Taliban attacks have destroyed hundreds of schools - an estimated 6 per cent of the country's education infrastructure. Parents have been threatened for sending their children - especially daughters - to school. Hundreds of pupils, teachers and education officials have been killed. The need for greater education opportunities in Afghanistan is one of the prime reasons why refugee families are hesitant to repatriate.


Child marriage is a traditional practice that hinders children's rights to health and education. The Ministry of Labour and Social Affairs estimates that more than half of girls under 16 years old are married. Partly due to early childbirth, Afghanistan has the second-highest maternal mortality rate in the world.

Safia, a seven-year-old returnee from Pakistan, was bartered off in marriage to a 55-year-old widower to settle a dispute between their families - a traditional practice in rural areas. UNHCR protection officers found her neglected, beaten and abused, treated as a servant by her husband's extended family and unable to go to school.

They alerted the local authorities, who dissolved the union and as compensation arranged another marriage for Safia's husband - this time to an adult woman. Overjoyed to be back with her family, she stressed: "I don't want to be married. I want to go to school."

But despite the challenging security and cultural environments in which to promote the rights of children, there has been much progress in Afghanistan. Since 2001, school enrolment has increased from 900,000 to more than 6 million. Many of them are returnees. And the proportion of girl students has risen from almost nil to 35 per cent. The number of teachers has grown sevenfold - again, many of them returnees - and the number of schools has doubled.

Humanitarian agencies like UNHCR have provided construction support for schools and sponsored catch-up education and vocational skills programmes for at-risk adolescents who have missed out on education due to war and displacement.

It is imperative, meanwhile, that the needs of second and third generations of refugees born in exile - education, jobs, land and housing, in addition to security - are addressed to create pull factors for their return home. At this critical time of transition in Afghanistan, the support of the international community for the people of this region is needed more than ever.

By Maya Ameratunga in Kabul, Afghanistan